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Eleven ([personal profile] savingthrows) wrote2021-09-03 07:43 pm

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[personal profile] deaddrop 2022-09-25 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. Kissing sometimes involves tongues.

That is more serious kissing. I'm fairly sure your Dad didn't think you were ready for it.
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[personal profile] deaddrop 2022-09-25 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Not exactly. Though they're not completely unrelated.

[That there? That is why Natasha made this offer.

Bucky can't be trusted.]


We might need to go back to square one with this one.

Fucking is sex.

Which is sometimes how they produce babies.

But more often, it's something that is fun for adults.

Kissing can be sexual, but it's not always. Kissing with tongue is also something that some adults do for fun, so in that respect it is similar.

Are you following so far?
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[personal profile] deaddrop 2022-09-25 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think anyone's worried Mike will force you to do anything, not that way. More like he'll ask you to do something and you'll say yes for his sake, not yours.

And considering you don't know much about this, if he DID ask you for something like that, they might be right about that.

There are lots of things that are for fun that you shouldn't do too soon. If you try and you're not ready yet, there can be bad consequences. Hooper and Bucky are trying to protect you.

Bucky is wrong about fuck though. It's not always a bad thing. It's an adult thing.
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[personal profile] deaddrop 2022-10-02 06:58 am (UTC)(link)
Not allowing your boyfriend to lie to you is a very reasonable boundary to set.

Did you want to dump him?